Shadow work is about more than holding ourselves to harsh accountability and calling ourselves wrong. In the bright darkness of the Shadow we find the riches, medicine and magic or our rich inner world. We also find old stories, old beliefs, truths, habits behaviors and general ways of being that we will find ourselves called to release. We will find parts of ourselves that we are called to embrace and integrate. This is all done with tenderness, compassion, grace, curiosity and heaps and heaps of love.
A most important part of journeying into the shadow is setting up a sacred space, a foundation that can hold you through this deep exploration, a space that nourishes our spirits honoring our humanity, sacredness, divinity, our wholeness.
Setting the Stage: Creating Your Sacred Space
Candlelight and Incense: Light a candle; its flame symbolizes the ritual’s beginning, inviting sacredness. Incense, like frankincense and myrrh, purifies and stirs the magic within your subconscious.
Spirit goes to Water: Have water nearby; it’s life and emotion, an essential element for cleansing. A small bowl of water adds beauty and spirit energy to your work, enhancing the sacredness.
Cozy: Wear clothes that let you breathe, move, and be wholly yourself. Connect with yourself by wearing textures and fabrics as much or as little that feels good to you. Shadow work shows us authenticity; begin by feeling comfortable in your own skin.
Writing as spellwork:Writing is an ancient and ancestral technology, a form of expression, discovery and conjure. Writing is a transformative practice, your shadow work notes and journals become your grimoire that contains your unique spells and rituals. Use a dedicated journal and a writing utensil that feels good to you.
Comfort Items: If resonant, have a fidget, stuffie, or blanket for comfort and grounding.
Sound and Music Medicine: Create a playlist of love songs; choose songs that remind you that your human self, messy and flawed, is deeply loved. Have these playlist available to hold you after you have done some shadow work. Have small instruments, like sound bowls, chimes, bells, or whatever you find pleasant, clear and medicinal. You may find recordings of ambient music or woodwinds to open or close your work session. Use whatever speaks to your soul.
Time and Space: Allocate ample time for your shadow work. Initiate, explore, integrate, and then recover. Some discoveries can leave you tender; give yourself the space to process before re-entering the demands of daily life.
Gentle Environments: Surround yourself with compassion in the days following significant shadow work. Let your surroundings be gentle and understanding. As you delve more deeply, the more your life eases, providing room for both the work and your everyday experiences.
Balance Learning and Living: Be mindful not to let your ego become dependent on the fulfillment of learning or teaching others. Yes, heal and teach, but also live your life fully. Your rituals are meant to enhance your existence, not consume it.
Seek Support: Working with a mentor or teacher can provide invaluable guidance through the shadow realm. They challenge you to delve deeper, retrieve more of your soul gold, and offer compassionate reminders. Additionally, engaging in small groups or courses provides support, normalizes resistance, and dispels the illusion of terminal uniqueness.
Ready to Dive Deeper? Let’s Embark Together.
If you find yourself curious about shadow work, seeking guidance in your journey, or desiring personalized rituals and exercises, I am here for you. I offer one-on-one shadow work consultations, ritual support, and exercises tailored to your unique needs. Additionally, I facilitate small group sessions, creating a supportive space for shared exploration.
To begin your transformative journey or to learn more about my offerings, please contact me at fiyahangelradicalwell-beingcenter.com. Let’s honor your shadows, embrace your wholeness, and navigate the journey together
I am fiyah angel and I open portals for exploration and liberation.